SELF-CONFIDENCE ( NEVER LET YOURSELF DOWN )

There will come a time when people would put you down.
People would judge you. Those who hardly know you. And those whom you thought knew you well.
You will look for comfort but you will find none. You will wander the streets weeping but not a friend will be in sight.

                     

    * NEVER LET YOURSELF DOWN. TAKE HEART, FOR NO MATTER HOW AWFUL THE ACCUSATIONS AGAINST YOU ARE, YOU ARE STILL A CHILD OF GOD. *

              

This is the time when your love for yourself will be tested.
Whether you will believe what others say about you, or whether you will stand your ground because you know yourself best.
Take comfort knowing that you are never alone.
                 

    * GOD still believes in you, you know. GOD loves you and sees in you the person everybody else failed to see. 
    Don't fail to see that person . Never let yourself down. *

                 

LOOK AT ME ! SEE HOW MUCH GOD'S POWER IS TO BE MADE MANIFEST !

               This is my moment !
                  This is my now,
                     I live in it, 
                       I move,
                       I sing,
                       I dance.
                     This is life,
                  This is forever-
        The rain now pouring over me
        Will never be the same again,
                    So I cry
                    I hope
       I laugh like a little child.
I look at the sunrise as though it is my first,
   As though it will be my last, 
                   I pray
                  I smile 
                  I love ! 
       I taste the fresh air 
  As though an angle gave it to me.
               I  am here,
               I am loved,
               I am seen.
       This is my moment,
   This is the very moment
              I BELIEVE !
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CRITICISM THAT HURT ( THREE THINGS ABOUT CRITICISMS THAT HURT US DEEPLY)

Words are powerful. They could lift us up towards healing, or they could wound uslike sharp swords that pierce our hearts.
    Which words have such a painful effect upon us and that leaves us feeling worthless and shattered after hearing them? Which people have the power to utter those words that often leave us broken and defeated ?
     

  THEIR ARE THREE THINGS THAT CONTRIBUTE TO CRITICISMS THAT HURT US DEEPLY .......

  1- THE CRITICISM THAT TOUCHES A WOUND :
    Words that are totally untrue rearly have the power to hurt us. We hurt because we felt some truth to the criticisms hurted against us. Such criticism may not be totally true, but they may point towards a truth we've always wanted to hide or to some related weakness that we haven't been able to address so far.
    Note that some of these weakness may not even exist in reality, but if we perceive them to exist or go matter go us the wounds exist, and they hurt whenever they are touched.
    For example; we may think we're not good looking enough and words said about our appearance trigger some feelings of insecurity. In truth, we may not really lookthat bad, but when we believe that we've not attractive, we'd always feel attacked whenever somebody tries to make fun of our appearance.

  2- THE CRITICISM THAT COMES FROM A PERSON VALUABLE TO US :
    It is the people who are closest to us whom we count on the most. We expect them to protect us, to defend us from people who may look down on us, and to guard the vulnerabilities we have revealed to them.
    Once the start criticizing us, we immediately feel the intensity of the impact of their words. We may feel like we're being attacked by those whom we trusted with our greatest secrets, including the weakness we have hidden from everyone else.
    Weren't they supposed to be the ones who would understand us to most ? Weren't they the ones who should believe in us despite the imperfections that they are in us?

  3- THE CRITICISM THAT COMES FROM SOMEONE CREDIBLE :
    Criticism have a greater impact when uttered by those use deem as credible in the area where we are being criticized.
    For example; If we are joining a signing contest, it is the judge who also happens to be a great singer, who has the power go affect us with her words of praise or disapproval regarding our singing ability.
    They may not be always right, but since we have already given them our belief in their particular area of expertise, we easily consider their words as true.
 
Once all three factors exist at the same time, the more will be out hurt and our difficulty in trying to move on from said criticisms.
For example; may be we feel insecy about our intelligence, and we have been criticized as being stupid and shallow. What we make it worse is when that criticism came from a person we love, such as a life partner, and more so if that person is one whom we consider as possessing a high degree of intelligence.

IN SUCH INSTANCES, HOW DO WE DEAL WITH THE CRITICISM THAT DEEPLY HURT OIR SELF-ESTEEM ?

  1- FIND HEALING FOR OUR WOUNDS :
          Hurt caused by criticisms may be opportunities for us to discover the wounds we have. This in turn may give us the chance to heal and to be more at peace with who we are.

  2- SEE THE INTENTION OF THE PERSON CRITICIZING US :
          If the person criticizing us is someone we love, let us try to look at their intentions for doing so. In truth, they may only want us to improve so we can have better lives and because they really care about us.
          If however, we find out that the people criticizing us have all the wrong intentions, such as really feeling envious and desire only to put us down, then we can learn to protect ourselves from them and not let their words affect our self worth.

  3- KNOW THAT NOBODY'S PERFECT : 
          

PERSONALITY TYPES (LAST FOUR PERSONALITY FROM THAT SIXTEEN PERSONALITY TYPES )

Hi friends,
    Discover what makes each personality type distinctive. Then try watching them to your neatest and dearest, your friends and acquaintances.
             

    THE PRESENTER :
LIFE MOTTO: NOW IS THE PERFRCT MOMENT !
    presenters are optimistic, energetic and outgoing, with the ability to enjoy life, and have fun to the full. Practical, flexible and spontaneous at one and the same time, they enjoy change and new expediences, copying badly with solitude, stagation and routine.
    With their liking for being at the centre of attention, they are natural-born actors and their speaking abilities arouse the interest and enthusiasm of their listeners. Focused as they are on the present moment, they will sometimes lose sight of their long-term aims and can also have problems with foreseeing the consequences of their actions.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous

    THE PROTECTOR :
LIFE MOTTO: YOUR HAPPINESS MATTERS TO ME.
    Protectors are sincere, warm-hearted, unassuming, trustworthy and extraordinarily loyal. With their ability to perceive people's needs and their desire to help them, they will always put other first. Practical, well-organised and gifted with both an eye and a memory for detail, they are responsible, hard-working, patient, persevering and capable of seeing things through to the end.
    Protectors set great store by tranquility, stability and friendly relations with others and are skilled at building bridges between people. By the same token, they find conflict and criticism difficult to bear.Given their powerful sense of duty and their constant readiness to come to the aid of others, they can end up being used by people.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: organised

    THE STRATEGIST :
LIFE MOTTO: I CAN CERTAINLY IMPROVE THIS.
    Strategists are independent and outstandingly individualistic, with an immense seam of inner energy. Creative, inventive and resourceful, others perceive them as competent, self-assured and, at one and the same time, distant and enigmatic. No matter what they turn their attention to, they will always look at the bigger picture and they have driving urge to improve the world around them and set it in order.
    Well-organised, responsible, critical and demanding, they are difficult to knock off balance and just as hard to please to the full. Reading the emotions and feelings of others is something they find very problematic.
  SOUCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: organised

    THE PRACTITIONER :
LIFE MOTTO : ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEM WORDS.
    practitioners are optimistic and spontaneous, with a positive approach to life. Reserved and independent, they hold true to their personal convictions and view external principles and norms with scepticism. They find abstract concepts and solutions for the future tiresome and would far rather roll up their sleeves and get to work on solving tangible and concrete problems.
    Adapting well to new places and situations, they enjoy freash challenges and risk and are capable of keeping a cool head in the face of threats and danger. Their general reticence and extreme reserve when it comes to expressing their opinions mean that other people may often find them impenetrable.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous.

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PERSONALITY TYPES (WHICH PERSONALITY YOU HAVE?) ANOTHER FOUR PERSONALITY FOR YOU....

Hi friends,
    Today we'll know another four personality types from that sixteen personality types.
           

    THE INNOVATOR :
LIFE MOTTO: HOW ABOUT TRYING A DIFFERENT APPROACH ?
    Innovators are inventive, original and independent. Optimistic, energetic and enterprising, they are people of action who love being at the centre of events and solving ' insoluble' problems. Their thoughts are turned to the future and they are curious about the world and visionary by nature. Open to new concepts and ideas, they enjoy new experiences and experiments and have the ability to identify the connections between separate events.
   Innovators are spontaneous, communicative and self assured. However, they tend to overestimate their own possibilities and have problems with seeing things through to the end. They are also inclined to be impatient and to take risks.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous

    THE INPECTOR :
LIFE MOTTO: DUTY FIRST.
    Inspectors are people who can always be counted on. Well- mannered, punctual, reliable, conscientious and responsible, when they give their word, they keep it. Being analytical, methodical, systematic and logical by nature, they tend to seen as serious, cold and reserved. They prize calm, stability and order, have no fondness for change and like clear principles and concrete rules.
    Inspectors are hard-working, persevering and capable of seeing things through to the end. As perfectionists, they try to exercise control over everything within their sphere and are sparing in their praise. They also underate the importance of other people's feelings and emotions.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: organised

    THE LOGICIAN :
LIFE MOTTO : ABOVE ALL ELSE, SEEK TO DISCOVER THE TRUTHS ABOUT THE WORLD.
   Logicians are original, resourceful are creative. With a love for solving problems of a theoretical nature, they are analytical, quick-witted, enthusiastically disposed towards new concepts and have the ability to connect individual phenomena, educing general rules and theories from them. Logical, exact and inquiring, they are quick to spot incoherence and inconsistency.
    Logicians are independent, sceptical of existing solutions and authorities, tolerent and open to new challenges. When immersed in thought, they will sometimes lose touch with the outside world.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous

    THE MENTOR :
LIFE MOTTO: THE WORLD CAN BE A BETTER PLACE !
     Mentors are creative and sensitive. With their gaze fixed firmly on the future, they spot opportunities and potential imperceptible to others. Idealists and visionaries, they are geared towards helping people and are conscientious, responsible and at one and the same time, courteous, caring and friendly. They strive to understand the mechanisms governing the world and view problems from a wide perspective.
    Superb listeners and observers, mentors are characterized by their extraordinary empathy, intuition and trust of people and are capable of reading the feelings and emotions of others. They find criticism and conflict difficulties to bear and can come across as enigmatic.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: organised.

     In the next topic we'll know last four personality types.

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PERSONALITY TYPES ( WHICH PERSONALITY YOU HAVE?)

WE'LL KNOW ANOTHER FOUR PERSONALITY TYPES :

  THE COUNSELLER :
LIFE MOTTO: MY FRIENDS ARE MY WORLD 
    Counsellors are optimistic, enthusiastic and quick-witted. Courteous and tactful, they have an extraordinary gift for empathy and find joy in acting for the good of others, with no thought of themselves. They have the ability to influence other people, inspiring them, eliciting their hidden potential and giving them faith in their own powers. Radiating warmth, they draw others to them and often help them in solving their personal problems.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: organised

    THE DIRECTOR :
LIFE MOTTO : I'LL TELL YOU WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.
    Directors are independent, active and decisive. Rational, logical and creative, when they analyze problems they look at the wider picture and are able to foresee the future consequences of human activities. They are characterised by optimism and a healthy sense of their own worth and are capable of transforming theoretical concepts into concrete, practical plans of action.
    Visionaries, mentors and organisers, directors possess natural leadership skills. Their powerful personality and direct and critical style can often have an intimidating effect, causing them problems in their interpersonal relationships.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the mind
  LIFESTYLE: organised

    THE ENTHUSIAST :
LIFE MOTTO : WE'LL MANAGE
    Enthusiasts are energetic, enthusiastic and optimistic. Capable of enjoying life and looking ahead to the future, they are dynamic, quick-witted and creative. They have a liking for people in general, value honest and genuine relationships and are warm, sincere and emotional. Criticism is something they handle badly. With their gift for empathy and ability to perceive people's needs, feelings and motives, they both inspire others and infect them with their own enthusiasm.
    They love to be at the center of events and are flexible and capable of improvising. Their inclination leads towards idealistic notions. Being easily distracted, they have problems with seeing things through to the end.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous

    THE IDEALIST :
LIFE MOTTO : WE CAN LIVE DIFFERENTLY.
    Idealists are sensitive, loyal, and creative. Living in accordance with the values they hold is of immense importance to them and they both manifest an interest in the reality of the spirit and delve deeply into the mysteries of life. Wrapped up in the world's problems and open to the needs of other people, they prize harmony and balance.
    Idealists are romantic; not only are they able to show love, but they also need warmth and affection themselves. With their outstanding ability to read other people's feelings and emotions, they build healthy, profound and enduring relationships. They feel that they are on very shaky ground in situations of conflict and have no real resistance to stress and criticism.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY: the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION: intuition
  DECISION-MAKING MODE: the heart
  LIFESTYLE: spontaneous.

We'll know another four personality types in next blog. So just wait and watch.

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PERSONALITY TYPES ( WHICH OF THE SIXTEEN PERSONALITY TYPES IS YOURS ?)

Hi friends,
    Today we'll know only four personality types from these sixteen.
   
    THE ADMINISTRATOR :
LIFE MOTTO : WE'LL GET THE JOB DONE !
    Administrators are hard-working, responsible and extremely loyal. Energetic and decisive, they value order, stability, security and clear rules. They are matter-of-fact and business like, logical, rational, and practical and possess the capability to assimilate large amounts of detailed information.
    Superb organisers, they are intolerant of ineffectuality, wastefulness and slothfulness. True to their convictions and direct in their contact with others, they present their point of view decisively and openly express critical opinions, sometimes hurting other people as a result.
THE FOUR INCLINATIONS :
  SOURCE OF ENERGY- the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING- via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE- the mind
  LIFESTYLE- organised

    THE ADVOCATE :
LIFE MOTTO : HOW CAN I HELP YOU ?
    Advocates are well organised, energetic and enthusiastic. Practical, responsible and conscientious, they are sincere and exceptionally gregarious.
    Advocate are perceptive of human feelings, emotions and needs. They value harmony and find criticism and conflict difficult to bear. With their sensitivity to any and every manifestation of injustice, prejudice or detriment to another, they are genuinely interested in other people's problems and take real delight in helping them and tending to their own. They have a tendency to do everything for others and can be vulnerable to manipulation.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY- the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING- via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE- the heart
  LIFESTYLE- organised

    THE ARTIST :
LIFE MOTTO : LET'S CREAT SOMETHING
    Artists are sensitive, creative and original, with a sense of the aesthetic and natural artistic talents. Independent in character, they follow their own system of values and are optimistic in outlook, with a positive approach to life and an ability to enjoy the moment. They have difficulty in voicing their own desires and needs.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY- the interior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION- via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE- the heart
  LIFESTYLE- spontaneous

    THE ANIMATOR :
LIFE MOTTO : LET'S DO SOMETHING !
    Animators are energetic, active and enterprising. They are inspires and instigator, spurring other to act. Being logical, rational and pragmatic realists, they are wearied by abstract concepts and solu for the future. Their focus is on solving concrete problems in the here and now. They have difficulties with organising and planning and can be impulsive, acting first and thinking later.
  SOURCE OF ENERGY- the exterior world
  MODE OF ASSIMILATING INFORMATION- via the sense
  DECISION-MAKING MODE- the mind
  LIFESTYLE- spontaneous.

  In Next topic we'll know another four personality. Just wait and watch.

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